Ex dating someone
I am not interested in getting back with this person, but I am curious about the feelings I guess. I can only try to piece pieces of information you’ve given me and what I know about this type of situations to try to make sense of what’s going on.
My take is that your ex may have hoped that things might work between you but was not sure if the “stress” problem was behind him.
It will be a long road emotionally and being a single parent is no joke. Sometimes reality sucks and is a tough pill to swallow. This guy is your first and only love, and he may always be your first, but he won't always be the only, and that's a good thing. Babies are sometimes conceived in strange circumstances.
I'd suggest seeing an abuse counselor at the very least so that you can understand the cycle of abuse and remove yourself from it. You can see this as negative, but its just the reality of your situation. Once you get there, settle in, and then look around for what's next.
We had unprotected sex for a year and nothing happened. Abusers have been known to try to kill their pregnant girlfriends/exes. Also, once you have the child, he will likely fight child support payment until you get a paternity test. You and they will live with this for the rest of your life. Having a safe place to live should be your first priority.
We started trying for a kid when I was 19 (he's 3 and a half years older than me). He said he'll never look at this kid like his own and that I'm only having this kid to ruin his life. We had sex one time in November, the last time before we broke up, and that's what got me pregnant. We were trying for a year, and the very last time it happens. The truth is you are choosing a terrible, difficult life for yourself and your child. Are you going to feel comfortable with your child having this man as a role model? He will likely teach a son to act this same way towards women and for a daughter to see that this is how women are treated. Have you moved out of your old place, or has your ex?
He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends.
Tinder guy turned out to be two of my worst fears combined: a short actor.He may have wanted to use the “let’s be friends” zone to try and gauge for himself if things would be different this time.You obviously were either still hurting because of what happened or angry that he left you when you needed him most, and you turned the “let’s be friends” request down.At the end they asked if we could still be friends and I stated “You left me when I needed someone the most.Not even a friend does that.” And we have not talked since and quickly after my ex started dating someone else but I have been told it is not the same between them as it was between he and I. Also why did he want to talk to me if he had made up his mind to move on? Yangki’s Answer: There is obviously a lot of history to this, but to answer to what you’re curious about. No one really knows what any one’s feelings are unless the person feeling them says what they are.