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I think you need to get to the primary source of your wife’s resistance.
Is it more that she lies there thinking: “I’ve got to make appointments for the kids’ vaccinations tomorrow. Olivia has a recital Thursday afternoon, so I have to arrange to leave work early …”?
Cyber sex may seem safer than real sex in some ways, because there is no risk of sexually transmitted infections or unplanned pregnancy.
I have suggested scheduling sex, which doesn’t sound sexy, but having sex turns out to be more sexy than not having it.
In most of these cases, though, the partners have established that they enjoy each other in bed—they’re just not getting there often enough.
But it's worth thinking about what the risks might be.
Although cyber sex may not be the same as 'real' sex, there are still real emotions involved.